Is This Allowed?
I was dating this girl once, and we were having an argument. Suddenly, she popped me one right in the face! I staggered back, shocked, and the contact lens came out of my eye. I just couldn’t believe it!
I was backing away, but she kept moving forward, coming at me, SCREAMING at me, with her arms flailing. I didn’t know what to do! I was half-blind, in shock, and in some moderate pain. I think I called her a “crazy b***h” or something at this point, and she immediately responded with a swift kick to the groin. It was a solid shot, but it dealt merely a glancing blow to the intended target (my “boys”), as I had twisted by body a bit just milliseconds before.
So. I punched her square in the jaw. Knocked out two of her teeth, and gave her a concussion. Had to call 911 because she was semi-conscious and just laying there on the tile floor, groaning.
The police never charged me with anything, but still, I felt kinda bad afterwards.
Oh, and we broke up later that day. (Over the phone.)
HEY DUDE, WHY NOT TELL THE WHOLE STORY FROM THE START????
YOU GOT HER BESTIE PREGGERS AND EXPECTED NOT TO HAVE A FIGHT ON YOUR HANDS? MAN YOUR A JERK. IF I WERE HER I WOULDN’T HAVE ATTACKED YOU I WOULD HAVE SPAT ON YOU AND WALKED AWAY. THEN MADE SURE THAT EVERYONE KNEW JUST HOW PATHETIC YOU ARE.
YOU CHEATED ON HER AND THEN ASK US FOR SYMPATHY? IF I WERE YOU I WOULD FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. LIKE I SAY EVERY ACTION CAUSES A REACTION, DEAL WITH IT ********
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You shouldn’t feel bad at all. I feel that if a woman hits a man like that she deserves to get it right back. You were just defending yourself. And there’s no point in the phrase “you should never hit a woman”. If she’s stupid enough to punch you in the face and not realize she’s gonna get hit back there is nothing to feel sorry for. Don’t feel bad.
it was years ago.
forgive her and forgive yourself.
but if you want to do more, why don’t you pay for her dentures or fake teeth?
Clear case of self defense. You managed to hit her harder than she hit you but thats only cos you are bigger. Maybe the right thing to do was grab her and restrain her and call for help but who in hell can think straight when they are being attacked? She knew what she was getting into when she attacked you, she got what she deserved. Next time though try and do the restraining thing!
I think it is sweet about how you care for her still…
But by the way you are describing it…I think she deserved it…Not the physical part but like the way you broke up with her…I guess how she started it was why you punched her but what she did before was deservant of a punch in her jaw…
Don’t feel bad or embarassed about what you did…. Because if you feel she deserved it and that she needed that…then I think you should just follow your “gut” instincts…
Krystal M
even if u guys dont luv each other anymore i would still think that u should still pay 4 her teeth replacement after all she WAS ur girl and u did hit her even though she tried to kick ur “boys”
Bad combination. Good of u to end the relation.
But why remember the incidence now ?
**** dude u kno shes poor!!!! y did u do tht this is horrifyin man….. u shdnt have shouted at her. instead u shd have started crying and said sorry. ot was very wrong to do tht mate….. but dont do tht again with any1 else man! u shd be ashamed of urself u shd not have PUNCHED her dude!!! wat her parents must have thought!!! imagine her poor parents. sheesh…..
Do not ever snoop down to your enemy’s level–it only shows your vulnerability.
ruined… what can I say?
If you feel guilty, be nice and fetch her to do up her teeth.
Why did you guys quarrel in the first place? Quarrelling is never healthy for any form of relationship. Always remember that.
The whole stereotype is don’t hit girls. It is a completly different situation when they punch you and kick you in the groin. I don not blame you one bit for doing what you did, i probably would have done the same thing. It was an act of self defence when you hit her, not because you got annoyed with her. You were having an argument but you didn’t hit her first you only yelled back, until she went physco. She may have been poor but it might be a wake up call to her for something like that, don’t be soo hard on yourself next time though try pushing them HARD backwards in stead of hitting
or chicken wings lol, you’ll be right,
OMG…. That must have been some punch…. I understand you were defending yourself but i think you went over board. I would feel bad if i were you. My man would never hit me, the most he would have done is probably pushed me down not punch me in the face….
Wow…well, its good that you guys separated because you would have ended up killing each other.
1st Edit: Ooooh, now I understand. You cheated on her, broke her heart, and not only that, you knocked up another woman. What did you expect her do? Put a smile on her face and walk away? What happened if she told you she was pregnant for another man? What happen if she told you she had AIDS and now you have it to(yes, I’m comparing this situation to an STD!). You’re a bad boyfriend.
lol….good job, she deserved it hehe…
Sometimes gals take advantage of the fact that they are able to swing at the guys and get away with it but if it was the other around….its always a big deal for a guy to beat up a gal because then it will just show that you dont respect your own sisters and your mum never taught you well…
Well since its about two years ago, it will probably be good and wise for you to apologise for your actions…
All the best and b4 you apologsie..try and keep away from the arm that popped you the first time lol…take care!!
You know… it’s a 50/50. Half of it is your gf fault, because she shouldn’t have been so violent and your action was self defese. An half of it is on you, ’cause you are a guy and the punch shouldn’t have been so strong (I think a smack would be ok, although I would prefer verbal arguing).
yeh, if she plays the whole, im a woman you cant hit me, that a load of crap coz she souldnt hit you.
Good job mate, dont feel bad, a lot af girls think they can go round hitting guys coz we wont hit them back.
Plus she souldnt hit you down there, that is so so wrong
you aught to have punched her in the **** man, see how she likes it
So you cheated on your girlfriend with her best friend and also got her best friend pregnant then after she was mad at you and hitting you for what you had done you called her a “Crazy *****” and punched her square on the face making her unconscious also giving her a concussion and knocking out 2 of her front teeth which she cant pay for because she is poor!
So you can afford contact lenses but not the money to at least replace her teeth?
You could have at least waited for her to get better and break up with her in person?
You should feel bad for what you did!
you punch her square in the jaw kncked out two of her teeth
and you broke up with her over the phone
i see now y she hit u on you ugly face bcz you are an @ss you BEAT a women ……….. you have to feel bad
She deserved it. Don’t feel guilty. Just because she is a female, doesn’t mean that she is going to get away with it. You have the right to defend yourself. In fact, you could have pressed charges against her. You were defending yourself.
nice story…
whoa. harsh. I don’t fault you for the self defense (it was a clear case of self defense, so they couldn’t charge you and expect it to stick), but still… I’d feel bad too.
Is there any any you can help raise money for her teeth? It would be nice, since a girl can’t have much of a future without them. No decent job, no decent guys, etc. You kind of ruined her future. Well, she ruined it by attacking you, but still, if you hadn’t punched her, her future would be a lot brighter.
Sorry about the situation, dude. That’s hard.
Nah she diserved it! and im a chick. I would deserve that if i had done it! Well she needs to get a job if she is poor. There is no use feeling bad about it. If you want to cheer her sad little then ask her to join you for a long ******* session… but tie her hands:P
Damn BRO LOL.
It’s good to defend yourself, but in an unlucky situation, in a tighter judicial system the judge would have said that you could have restrained her, later pressing charged.
You got realllllly lucky.
yes if you truly loved her you will bare the bad feeling for the longest time possible do long us you will be thinking of her.please can you sent her some cash to buy herself some tooth.
i think ur a dam moron. U never should hit a girl unless she has the qualitys of a man.jk. But however if i was in ur position i wouldn’t of stood there i was of controlled her, taken her 2 the ground and waited for her to cool down.
Ok, I wouldn’t feel bad about this. I was in an abusive relationship and at the end of the day violence from anyone to anyone is unacceptable. However if I was now in that relationship and he hit me like he used to, I’s punch him so hard he’d never forget it. You are perfectly entitled to defend yourself. don’t worry.x